"....We forgive, then, out of self-interest.  I forgive you because I want out of my pain.  I forgive you so I can be free of what you did.  I see beyond your mistake to the love in you so that I can see love in me---because only then can I have a miracle." Marianne Williamson

Wow! Wow! Wow! I'm mediatiing and journaling on this one because I need to let some stuff go.